ODSNT, You need to think long and hard about what you want here. I know what youre saying about wanting to save your marriage. You have to WANT these changes for yourself. Prove MrBond wrong here. Im sure he wants you to. Show yourself that you can change, accept the challenges that are in front of you as roadblocks to those changes and break them down. Like I said the first step is the hardest. Just take that first step. Dont have pity on yourself. Understand what you have done to cause this, forgive yourself for doing that and then find out what it is that you can do to change it.
So get your a$$ up and go DO something that is at least a step towards what you want to accomplish. You got this.
M:33 W:30 T:10 M:2 B/D: 5/27/14 S: 5/28/14 Wife moved back in 7/18/14