Old dog seeks new trick

[MrBond]

"I hope you are right about MrBond. I thought he just didn't like self pitying slackers :-)"

Actually, I get FRUSTRATED with self-pitying slackers whose WAS told them for YEARS what they needed to change but didn't. What is amazing to me is that your W told you time and time again what she wanted you to change, went to C, etc. and you still didn't want to change. Do you know how many LBS here would have killed for that opportunity?

Yet here you are, posting about how bad your situation is which was preventable and yet you still don't change anything. All of your fawning and wishing that you could do something is just talk. You still haven't DONE anything.

You can still save your M, but I don't think you want to. I have a feeling you're going to be one of those marriages that are saved but will fail again because you're not going to keep your changes for life.