I just am over bending over for him to know schedules and him missing things or if he does show up it's 30 minutes late!
How hard is it!? If you don't want to be a dad fine but just leave it alone then. I really don't want to validate him saying I don't tell him things because I sent a text June 9 with basketball times and the day of the week. I also sent a text June 12 reminding him practices are mon and weds, I also sent him a text June 20 reminding him of the game days and times. He has shown up to 2 practices. That is it. We are in our third week of practice not counting games. LET IT GO lol.
I am not upset about it but I would just like to be left alone. I don't know if him texting about these things is him reaching out. I do not think so. I think he expects me to make it easy on. Him for doing the homework of when things are Scheduled, etc.
When he does text me he has NEVER. Said hi, hello, how are you, wished me well nothing. This is an example of his texts 'S3 have practice tonight?' Or 'How s3 game go?'
When I respond he reads my response and never says anything. I know I'm fixating on things I can't control and. I'm not trying to control them. But how can he expect me to be helpful when he can't say anything to the boys or I. He hates me so much he can't even check on the boys. He has seen them 2 times in 2 weeks with no call or text in between. Is he that scared to talk to me? Or does he hate me that much that he can't reach out to them? Yet he posts on FB and sends friends messages saying I'm using the boys as leverage and I'm keeping them from him, that he doesn't ask for them because I won't let him have them
