Continuing my DB journey part 3

[Georgiabelle]

Requesting a meeting is probably a waste of time. Either share a google calendar or send him an email with the week's times/events. I will sound harsh, but I'm sure your h can read. You can send him dates, times, and lottery predictions and you cannot make him read them, show up , or be a father. That's on him. Document that you've sent him the times and or shared the calendar. That's all you can do. In this particular situation, when one doesn't show, speak or respond, there is nothing to validate. Just my 2 cents.

In regards to blame , detach. Your h will try to blame you for why he failed a math test in the 8th grade. Ignore it. That's all on him. Focus on you and your boys. Your h will either choose to participate or not and there is nothing you can do to make him a better father. Repeat. You cannot make your h do squat and you cannot control whether he blames your for the cost of gas. Again, his deal. Keep sending or sharing the info. Be pleasant and live your life.

I know DBing is about improving yourself. That being said, this doesn't mean the other party should be coddled or treated like a child. Sorry if I sound feisty today! Hope this helps.