This is where I'm Struggling. If a vet could chime in because I have ASKED him to meet and talk about the boys. He'll I've tried to call him even and he refuses to meet or talk.
I know previously people have said you can't make him be a father but at the same time I'm getting sick of his lack of involvement being blamed on me.
If you don't want to be a dad - fine. But stop shifting the blame to me. I understand you blame me for everything else - like why you can't be around Me, why we are getting a divorce, why you're moving on with your life, etc. but just because I'm not kissing your ass doesn't mean you aren't as equally as capable of having this information yourself.
He has no problem knowing the schedule for things he wants to do, going out of town every weekend.
