At this point, you need to do it for yourself to gain some self control. By now you should have read enough to know where you're going wrong and what you're supposed to be doing.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014