what do i do if she leaves and moves in with OM / That will be brutal . I cant believe that she would do that but she s been acting very strange this last couple weeks . Being very mean and uncaring and then the next day being thoughtful and kind . Shes driving me nuts . maybe thats her plan . Now today seemed to be somewhat normal but then i started snooping . Mainly because i dont want to get blindsided . Surely she wouldnt do this to her kids . My god she must see how this is gonna hurt them . i suppose a WAW doesnt see clearly or think rational . there mus tbe a way to keep her from leaving . I m affraid if she leaves , I wont wnat her back even if she wants to come back . That would be worse damage than the actual cheating in my opinion . I like the analogy pick up the sword and sheild , shges a beauty to be rescued . I really feel that way


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )