So now that it appears we are approaching the next phase in this process I must say I am quite scared given how often I've read piecing is TOUGHER than DBing. I feel like I've barely survived to this point..

Retrouvaille closest to us is not until September. So we need to get from now until then.

I'm trying to think through when I will know it's ok to let him move back in. I think I will have some anxiety no matter what.

M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14