Getting something down here so that maybe typing it out will remove it from being a distraction – sometimes that works, sometimes not……
S9 this morning was looking for something to eat and asked W to help – I was in the kitchen so offered and he because upset saying “not you”. I offered again and then quietly left him there telling him that if he needed help he could come and tell me.
W came into the kitchen and began saying to him that others could help, that he hurt my feelings which was not very nice and the he should apologize, that he wouldn’t like being treated that way by his friends and that it wasn’t very nice to hurt people and be mean…
I was in the office drinking a big ‘ol glass of STFU but was thinking to myself – hello pot, this is kettle.
Can WAS really be that disconnected and not see that the very things she is talking about to him can be applied to their own actions……
There it is out and down on paper so maybe I will be a bit less distracted…….
Thanks in advance for any commentary – or 2x4s!
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork