Thanks T2, I was hoping to do the same, last until things stabilize and I may have if things hadn't sped up a few weeks ago.
I'm working on that acceptance, compassion and forgiveness and was almost there when things changed so much so fast when her father's cancer was found to be back. Drove her right back into her tunnel, only deeper. Most of the time I do feel those things but then something happens and I get the old, destructive anger back. Happening less and less now and I think my D19 coming home will help keep my mind on the important stuff. Thanks again T2!