Oh definitely Claire. But I will never feel sorry for them. I do pity them. Seeing her makes me see that it can't possibly work out and he clearly is filling a void to avoid working on his own issues. She is a bandaid. I actually wasn't even sad seeing her. I was angry yes but also thought - how pathetic.
Her friends and family condone it by hanging out with them. It reinforces what they're doing. However, I will continue to be a better me and truly enjoy my boys everyday. You can't get back yesterday. H sent me a text within 5 minutes of me walking away from her asking if there is basketball practice tonight. UGH I am not your mother. I've told you the schedule quit asking me!
