I'm sorry W moved out Matt, it [censored], but I bet you will find a huge change in the house vibe...when my W moved out the tension, anxiety and negativity followed her right out the door. The kids even noticed it.
My W is farther along the tunnel trip than yours is, it feels like she is climbing out and has some clarity, but I don't know what is on her mind, lol....but whatever she decides about her future and if it includes me or not will be made from a calmer, more stable place. And that was one of my goals, to last long enough until she stabilized. From there, who knows?
Important thing is that I accept her as she is now, whatever that means for the future. No anger, just acceptance, compassion and foregiveness.
Last edited by TSquared2; 06/23/1407:41 PM.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
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