Hi T2, I've been wondering about that talk she wanted to have and have been checking to see for the last week! Just like an MLCer. What ever she "felt" when she said that probably isn't at all what she "feels" now. Probably couldn't tell you what was on her mind when she said it to save her life! I also have found that my D19 and I have become much closer now after a very rebellious period from 15-17. She doesn't understand her mom or maybe she does better than I think as she has said that her mom's acting like she's 15 years old. "I wanted to run away when I was 15. I got over it!" was the best thing she has said to date.
My W left for good yesterday. She's moved into her new place 26 miles away. So ends 25 years together and she acted like it was nothing. No emotion, just like she would be back later. See me next Saturday when she comes to pick up more "stuff". She is almost in a daze when around me. When she does speak, she's being nicer than she has in a long time.
I'm praying for your W to come through her sitch and realize just what it means to lose you and break up the family. I really think she just is lost and really needs to find her way back. Good luck and enjoy that busy life!
