Just continue to work on yourself. Do your 180s, GAL, and detach. She will notice your changes. In time she will notice if they stick or not. One thing you have to take on faith is that your WAS is thinking about you even if only a little. She is hurting and confused. SHOW her why she would be a fool to leave you.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16