Every LBS has had to deal with this. It is VERY important to remember that your WAS will speak in ABSOLUTE NEGATIVES. They will rewrite your M history to justify their current actions. Did you really expect your W to tell your best friend how great you were? If she did, people would think something is wrong with her for leaving. I had to deal with this recently as well when her dad called me to tell me all the awful things about me, half of which were either not true or extreme stretches of the truth. Just accept it for what it is...and do not take any of it to heart. Keep at it.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
