Can you give more details about other conditions in your M?
Who does most of the housework, employment, who is the higher wage earner, what were you doing when you met, when you married... etc.
She has some health issues; does that mean you pick up a lot of the slack as you said above (with the dogs). Does she work full time?
Does she have an EX, kids?
What are things like with your families?
Everyone happy about your marriage, considering the--prejudice-- about younger men and older women? (Unfair, but real.)
Any other stressors?
Think about what ELSE might have changed, you know?
---GG
Now I catch myself in "fix-it mode" so I'm going to stop.
This is stuff for you to think about and process. Share if you like.
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?