Nada. Don't do it. Why? It won't solve one freaking thing. Your h is lying about things. He knows it. You know it and many others know it too. If you send the shots it will only add fuel to the fire. Keep practicing not reacting. It's bait. Much of it is a big vat of bait. Don't take it. Chant to yourself. "High road! High road! High road!"
After doing this consistently you will feel better. Remember that your h is losing out on so much by hanging out with someone wearing a Selena Gomez t- shirt and thinks the Jonas Brothers are an old group. . You can do this:-)
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3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
This wasn't bait he didn't know I would go on the phone bill.
How do people swallow this. I have never said anything about her beyond the one day when he said they were only hanging out not dating and I just said that's sad for our family.
Since then I've said nothing to him about anything of them, the public humiliation to me and my family on Facebook, the mass texts threatening to sue me, the accusations against my father for things that I don't even want to type.
Thank you all I know I sound crazy but this is a huge pill to swallow and shut up
Oh I know it's difficult-trust me. The problem is if you mention it, he will turn it around and try to make you sound crazy.
I know how challenging it is. I do. The craziness and the ridiculous social media remarks. But guess what? The people * agreeing * with him don't know you. You don't have to prove anything to those peeps. Just let it roll off your back. Like water off a duck. Quack. :-)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
Nothing. I actually didn't realize it was her I was standing next to her in the aisle for a good 5 minutes. She stayed right next to me. One of the boys ran by her and I was about to say something to her to apologize for them running by when I realized it was her. I left the aisle and saw her sister confirming it was her (I wasn't sure because I've only seen pictures) so I got the boys went back down the aisle right next to her and said come on boys let's go made eye contact with her and walked away (she was texting at this point - I'm sure to H because I got a text from him shortly after)
And I know this may be immature and everyone has been telling me she's not al that but all I have to say is what a downgrade for H. Not to pride myself by any means but a downgrade In so many ways. And gosh she is SO young. She was wearing short shorts with a sports bra and that's it. Really!!
I mean, is there a way you can feel sorry for both of them? What does It say about her that she is spending her time with a 30 year old man who left his kids and doesn't seem to be a very engaged dad at the moment, and not only doesn't have his own home but lives with HER parents! How is that attractive to a young girl? Does she feel like that is the best she can do? Is the fact that he's simply older than her the draw? What is her sense of self-worth? What do her friends say? And the fact that her parents seem to be condoning it also says something about their dynamic, don't you think?
