"She's shared a lot. Even I have been surprised, but she does and I love her for that. She felt safe enough to sit down and talk to me about it, only what she said wasn't that she feels bad or lost her sex drive or needs x or doesn't get enough y, etc."
So---what did she say, exactly? It doesn't sound like she said she lost her sex drive...
No, she didn't say she lost her sex drive, but that doesn't mean she didn't. She just...lost it. Like, doesn't think about it to say she lost it, know what I mean? And I can't be the one to ask about it because that would add pressure.
She said her neuropathy had gotten worse, she talks to me before and after every doctor visit, she is getting another regular ECG scan again soon, she is having a specialist/endocrinologist test her blood next month because she's so tired (she's a diabetic but she loves sweets and pasta and bread and hates vegetables). She talks about being tired and wanting to fix that. It's kinda frustrating because I think she's not doing anything to fix it, such as eating right, excercising, and she'll still stay out way past midnight if she's partying. But I do what I can like letting her sleep in late on the weekends, I get up every day with the dogs so she can get more rest and I don't take it personally when she goes to be before me every night or passes out in the middle of doing, well, anything.
