I do agree with Starsky that if it's just a case of mis-matched libidos, then that's something you need to decide that you can live with, or not.

My H and I were mismatched that way, him on the lower side, but I loved him and decided it was something I could live with because there was so much more to our R than that.
(There is more to that story if you want the gory details in my thread.)


My point is only that there may well BE an underlying physical cause considering her history, something she is unwilling to share right now for whatever reason.

(I have gone through some physical "female" issues myself and I did NOT want to share these with my H because I felt it would be a turn-off. It made for some weird times.)


I'm still waiting to see if she shares something with you when she feels it's safe to do so.
I hope I'm right because perhaps it will be something transient and fixable by medical means.


----GG


Me 54 Him 63
M 23 T 29
0 Kids
Funny Farm of Rescues
12/12 OW--
5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied
9/13 Proof OW: ENDED
2/14 Got D papers on my BD
I kicked him out for my sanity
9/14 He wants to "talk"?