Forget the affair timeline. It will only cause you to have expectations.
Expect to be in it for the long haul; meanwhile, try hard to embrace what you are learning here.
I am FINALLY starting to feel a bit more in control and it's been--nine months since A discovery on my end.
If I had not found this site, I know I would be in divorce court as we speak.
If you need to vent, do it here. Check in before responding to your W.
(The fact that you did that about the text was spot on, rather than going off half-cocked and giving her a piece of your mind, which would be the 'normal' response of non-DBers.)
Shifting focus is paramount. It's really hard, but you can do it. Find something else POSITIVE you can dwell on and direct that negative energy into.
---GG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
