Sorry you are having a bad day. I am not sure your efforts are backfiring. Your H is still a WAS which means there is no logic or reason behind what he is doing, only emotion. You are on the right track in that your H has noticed you being happy. Give him time to see who he fell in love with BEFORE the OW.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16