Thanks Thorton and GoatGal . I just some days are so full of fear and emotion its hard to take without some words of wisdom. As far a affairs lasting about six months we are at seven as of now . about three since i found out . Some days I see a glimmer of hope and other days it looks mighty dim .I can forgive and forget whats been going on , i have committed myself to my marriage . but im afraid she cant forgive herself for what shes done . I think she is going to struggle with that . If the affair was over i could help her . Im praying that this fling is on its way out and she doesnt leave us .


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )