I like to use the phrase "I know, this has been incredibly difficult on all of us." Validates and acknowledges her pain, while reminding her that her actions have impacted others, which is healthy I think.


Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)