Point taken, this is stuff I've been working on in therapy. Zero control over other people.

1. I have dated healthy women with no addictions before.
2. Dated W for 3 and half years
3. We are old classmates from high school and connected 15 years later on Facebook. We didn't know each other in high school but connected through our high school Facebook page. We slowly started posting on each other's walls and I eventually asked her out.