Thorn,

Originally Posted By: Thornton
She had been struggling maintaining her sobriety. 10 months sober but working any programs.


How have you shown non-judgmental support to W in this struggle?

I kept trying to push her back into AA and therapy but that seemed to only push her away.

Therein lies the problem. You cannot force someone to attend therapy if they don't want it nor ready for it.

All of this makes me curious about your dating history.

1) Have you ever dated a relatively healthy woman without any addictions?
2) How long did you date W?
3) How did you meet her to begin with?