W just called again, and again I felt no need to answer the phone.
I dug through stacks of mail in W's office yesterday, most of it unopened statements from banks I've never heard of. Found 4 more cards in arrears. That makes about 6 or 7 cards she has opened in the last 5 years, run up debt and then gone to collections. And then she just ignores the mail they send her. Never told me about any of it. L says no way I'll be held responsible for it. She has a spending addiction. Whenever I have brought up the subject, she gets ultra defensive and tries to turn it on me, or says she has to buy food and clothes for kids.
This is something she is going to have to own and fix at some point in her life and she doesn't even recognize it as a problem yet.
S9 emailed me some nice pictures of the water park. They are having fun.
Dammit - waiting list for wine dinner. But a couple of my staff from overseas are in town for the week, so I'll take them out for some fun one night.