You handled it like a cool, calm woman who knows what she can and can't live with.
I'm so glad he responded the way he did and is willing to work things out with you.
That's what we all hope for!
Also great for taking some time to mull it over on both ends.
No reason to rush into anything; you want to make sure you both know what this will really take.
I know from reading here that there will be lots of hills and valleys after this, but you seem up to the challenge.
Good for you! I'm pulling for you, mdu!
---GG
PS: I KNOW your name is not "mud", it's this darn auto-correct. Three times back trying to edit it....Grrrrrrr.....
Still don't know what "mdu" stands for. I guess I'm the curious type. Care to share?
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?