Sex was great, part 2

[GoatGal]

Grey,

I don't think Adinva meant that you should stop "wanting" it for six months.
That ain't gonna happen!

I think what she meant was---and I agree--- all the things you're doing to "fix" it HAVE NOT HELPED.

You don't even know what the problem IS.

You're very fixated on your own needs, no matter what.

Now it sounds like you're ready to hang it up based on PURE SPECULATION on your part.


The fact is, you have NO IDEA what your wife is really thinking or going through.

And until you calm down enough to allow her to open up to you,
YOU ARE MAKING THE SITUATION WORSE.


If you want to believe you're "not meant to be together" because your wife is going through something and you guess that it was just "getting married" that broke your awesome sex life prior, then go ahead and base your actions on that.

I'm pretty sure you'll regret that one.

That is, if you really love your WIFE, not just what she does for you or how she makes you feel..


--GG