I messed up this morning and i snooped her phone . She left it out and had to run to the bathroom. There was a text message that said " xoxo you have my heart " That crippled me . Can some one tell me how to handle that mentally . I wish I hadnt snooped now . Every time i do I get hurt .


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )