Yes just leave. No sad looks, no long goodbyes. In fact, I would suggest that you leave when she's not there. Maybe if she's at work or something. Because I have a feeling you're not going to be able to control yourself and say something.
Well shes home before me to be honest. I think best thing for me to do would be to remain calm and say
ok so I thought about it all and think its best I leave today. I have my car parked outside and I just need to pack my stuff up quickly. take your time and decide what you want. I respect your wishes for asking me to move out. I know what lead me to this day and I understand how you must feel as its not easy on either one of us. Tc of yourself and stay well.
Why say anything? If you're going to go, just pack your stuff and leave without saying anything. If you're going to stay, just get on with your life without saying anything. Moral of the story: less talk and more action.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014
I dont know I just thought due to what mr bond said.. hmm.. she expects us to go out tonight for our 1 yr marriage anniversary.. I got her a gift n she did the same.. this is weird...
Has she explicitly said anything about celebrating your anniversary?
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014
Has she explicitly said anything about celebrating your anniversary?
The other day I said we should do something and she said no.. but last night she said tomorrows our anniversary and even though it doesnt mean anything to me or you, you could've done something today... but I said I was planning to do something tomorrow as in today.. and she was txting me about it today. So yeah she mentioned it.. itll be good ill make it pleasant and leave a good memory behind before I go.
Your W has left you and asked you to move out...and yet you want to take her out for dinner to celebrate your "anniversary." This is a head-scratcher to me.
Your W has left you and asked you to move out...and yet you want to take her out for dinner to celebrate your "anniversary." This is a head-scratcher to me.
you gotta listen to what MRBond and 25 are saying. Its gold here. I am a fly on the wall but have been copy and pasting their solutions to your sitch all over the place. but you need to read db thats why this is so confusing. Its like going to fix a car by just looking at a poster of the vehicle. Details are the framework of this. You can do it. now get busy
Me 42 W:35 M: 14yrs T:15yrs D: 8yrs D:6yrs S:3yrs BD: "I want a D"09/03/14 Sep: 30/06/14
Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
1Wish, I hope one day you get to look back at these early threads and laugh at where you've come from.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014
1Wish, I hope one day you get to look back at these early threads and laugh at where you've come from.
I hope I do too.. why am I so dumb.. im doing everything wrong from the looks of it.. when I go im going to read the lrt and do that.. btw she said shes seeing a councillor on wednesday..
