Ive added a couple of posts to my original in the last couple of days and I still cant see them on here, I'm not sure if i'm doing something wrong, so I'm just going to keep posting and hopefully someone sees them. I am so afraid that my H is never going to come homw, that this is my new reality for the test of my life, when we first separated, he was really distant, going out etc, then we started to spend a bit of time together, being intimate etc, texting, taling on the phone, he told me to give him a couple of month and then we'd start moving towards moving back in together, that was 8 weeks ago and in the last 4 weeks, he has increasingly detached himself, no more "aleepovers' unless I turn up his place, he wants to be 'independant' wants to look after our boys all by himself when he has them, going out all the time, and now going out of town when going out, he still texts three things that have made him happy for the day at thend of every day, is he only doing that to appease me or is he wanting to keep a personal connection other than just our boys? someone please help, i'm really drowing, I've read lots of your posts on here, and I just need support, please
