Glad you asked. I thought things were getting better, I think I'm at a stand still.

1 I don't think my sitch was a true WAS/LRT but some rules were very helpful. My wife is ILYBNILWY.
2 there is no OM
3 W does realize she needs medication again
4 my 180 was somewhat successful, I got an IC who was very helpful

The reason why things are better but not:
1 W goes for undergrad in NC August-May
2 W goes for masters program after that (???)
3 she thinks were just dragging it out, but we still love each other

I'm still in Cali on military orders and I'm here for awhile. Her masters schools are all southeast US and well... not many marine corps bases there.

So, just not sure if our life plans are going to cross, or even happen for that matter. I'm a WHOLE LOT better by following DR and LRT, but I still regret parts of it. I do regret not starting sooner. A lot of my worries have been solved.... I do feel my W is my soulmate but I guess every married person should right?

Maybe its a waiting game now, who knows. I love you guys BTW!



"Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And stay." ~ Will Smith