Yep, leave her alone. Don't get sucked into R talks. If she insists, just listen and validate her.
Thanks Thornton. Gonna make sure this week is chalkful of GALing but I know this is when we all fall apart and my kids get a new p/t Dad and mom as they realize its happening (move in four days).... It will be bittersweet to leave but i think the R will finally hit midnight black once we are physically separated. ugh. Gonna beat those R talks down then. Going to go stab my heart with a big knife of detaching for the next hour or so too...cant believe how much I love this woman....ugh. Detach. ow
Me 42 W:35 M: 14yrs T:15yrs D: 8yrs D:6yrs S:3yrs BD: "I want a D"09/03/14 Sep: 30/06/14
Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.