She says she's conflicted

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Boundary number 1- you will not listen to her relationship problems with OM.

How disrespectful.

She actually got upset about something today.

She threatened to divorce me, break-up with him and go live by herself for a while.

so the "threat" part is the divorcing you? B/c the rest is not threatening, imo.

And then once she finds herself, go find a Real Man, a man that she wants to be with.

Ouch...

I replied, you have a real man right next to you, so why don't you dump him and see what you have...

Silence

Sorry, I must be dense today. I don't understand your reply. You want her to dump YOU and then see...what she has? Or whom? Like OM?

Or you want her to dump HIM and then lose you, or what?

I'm confused.

Sorry no not at all. she brings this up.

I have said to her, I would rather see you on your own then with this POS.
He is a fake phony fraud and she just does not see it.

Oh , i am the real man...she says what she says to shut me up...When she commented on dumping both of us for a real man she was just trying to get me to stop.

I will tell you if I dont stop she will leave again..I just have to shut up.

She already told OM to not cone to the US. If she is lying to me and I catch her with him....I pity him and then I will file for divorce and lock her out of the house..