My 1st H (my big girls' dad) was also a POS. At 20 years old with two kids, I thought my life and "love life" were over when he left me high and dry. Fig's words literally just brought me to tears. (Thank you for sharing that part of your life, fig.)
twin, listen to these people. I know you are hurting so badly right now. You must feel so lost and alone and confused.
But you are better and stronger than you know right now. You proved that today. Hang tight, knowing the best is yet to come for you and your sweet babies.
You're a remarkable mom, and you're doing what goes against YOUR current feelings for what you KNOW is in their greater good. People don't find a better momma than that.
Thinking of you often and much ...
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014
