Oh Exquisite... wow. And the drama beat goes on doesn't it?
You know what? I would just stand firm in your rules and your boundaries on YOUR TURF with your son.
How old is your son again?
You may have to make a few new rules too!
Allowing my girls to choose but still support visitation with their father in conjunction with realistic scheduling has worked very well for me. Of course it hasn't been to XH liking. But then again that's because he's upset his daughters don't faint with fascination that their father has just walked into the room! I think it bothers him they don't do cartwheels upon reuniting on his weekends.
