Hi Kimmerz !! I have come here and look for an update on you for awhile now.. i wish you had a better outcome but i also know YOU deserve much much more then him. I still see similarities in the way we feel about MLCer. I also feel nauseated when i look at XH' s lifestyle of fake. When they get a taste of their own medicine, it doesn' t fase on them how we could do this to them uhhhhh????? Crazy world which i want no part of and i can t seem to get out of it. i will be going back into councelling to discuss this and how to approach son' s situation. Son will be coming to spend a few days here tonight. he got a job at my sister' s business while living with XH and other woman. talk about feeling betrayed... Anyway, i am not giving up...