I told him that he needs to move out, that he has issues he needs to work through on his own before I even THINK about delaying the divorce much less there be a chance for anything between us.
I told him that once he realizes his issues a good ic would be beneficial.

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction