It's controlling if you say "You need to believe 'X'."


It's NOT controlling to say "I cannot be married to a man who believes 'X'." That is a BOUNDARY.

One is about trying to control the other person. The other is all about YOU, and what YOU can abide. Remember my post from Jayne about the circles?


Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)