Hoping for positive changes

[artsy]

Thanks, ladies. I always appreciate people stopping by my thread!

Ggrass- we have no common property. I lived here before we were married and he still has his house he had before we were married-he rents it out. Both mortgages are in separate names. No car loans or anything. We have no joint accounts, so actually the splitting of things should be a non-issue.

The only thing at play here is alimony. I hate this!

I think his comments and actions are confusing because he IS confused. It's ridiculous and I'm tired of it!

How do you get past the humiliation? I haven't told but a very small handful of people about my sitch- if I file, it goes public record. I'm just so embarrassed. NOBODY would have seen this coming from him. It truly is a shocking story to those that know him.