I would suggest he's stalling. He doesn't want to loose things in a settlement and is using the emotional card of I love you but I can't make a leap of faith.
If he was in love he's already married so its not like there's a commitment issue, he can always continue to d later.
Can you do a property settlement, before a d in your state? We can in Australia. They are separate issues. I am doing property atm, h also gave me the line I'm coming back right after, he told me he spent the whole weekend at the ow place. Mmmm like I believe you!
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26