Forgiven lazy husband - reconcilliation possible?

[rayzzz]

Rayzz,

I would wear your wedding ring if that's what you feel is right. It's a personal decision that I wrestled with a lot at the beginning of my stich.

Don't wear it to show her you won, or because you are trying to make a point to her. Let your feelings guide what you do, and whatever you do, if you remove it, make sure you are taking it off because YOU want to, and not because of how she will respond.

Hey I bought a new sterling silverband(just a cheap one) cause my current one is falling apart (lost real wedding ring years ago and have been wearing fakes)
and I have decided that it doesnt come off. it hasnt in 14 years and in a way this new one means to me a committment to myself to change me for the better for a real marriage....hopefully with her