She said she doesn't actually think we are good friends at all. Not sure if this is her thoughts because of the OM, or her own thoughts. But it doesn't matter because it's how she feels. I feel differently obviously, but that is put away for now. She also said she doesn't think we bring out the best in each other.
2x4 time: give your head a shake. You CANNOT believe a word she says. She's rewriting history as all WAWs do. She's saying things to justify her actions and emotions. Don't believe a word of it. As for listening better, try reflective conversation techniques. http://www.loveatfirstfight.com/instant-connection/ It's a better way to communicate so that you give her a voice and validate her side of the equation.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
