dawgy. see, when you pull back she comes closer. Just keep pulling back. Don't pursue. Asking to go with her shopping was pursuing. That's a no no.

Keep your imagination in check. If you want to imagine something, imagine that she's having fights with the OM and is in great turmoil, and that you're the only real save haven she has.

In bed, don't make any moves on her. If she wants to cuddle, let her. Just don't interpret that as in invitation to get frisky. Women need to cuddle. It's men who need sex. Read the book: His Needs Her Needs. Has some great eye-openers.

Yes, this will be the hardest thing you've ever done in your life. So true for all of us LBSs.

Get a copy of DR. Critical read.

M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014