Yes, he knows that I know. Any conversations are about my flaws and how I have changed but that he still doesn't love me. I am trying to avoid any and all conversations right now.

At this point I think I want to "win" him back so he will get help. Even if I do decide to divorce him anyway I want him to get help.

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction