He is a POS. He is using you , his post partum wife, with hormones all over for HIS needs with no regards to your feelings.
He is a serial cheater and a liar. He lied to his ex wife, he has lied to you, and he lied to OW. He's got serious issues. And who knows if he has an STD?
DBing in this case should be for you, not him, because he has serious issues he desperately needs to fix. And he hasn't even come close to attempting it.
To me, right now what he is trying to do is disgusting. Please don't give into it. You are a strong woman, you can do this. Keep it to the the kids.
this^^^
Also, instead of going to "couples" therapy with OW, to whom he's NOT married(!!), why not suggest he get his a$$ to a therapist for himself?
Does he know that you now know you were an OW too? God, what a weak little man with a huge character flaw.
So sorry Twin.....so so sorry.
Oh, I posted on your other thread but then saw Lillian's troubles at the start, (the CPS thing might have thrown me over the edge so I say BRAVO to you x 1000)
and I was worried. I see that you are in "phase 2" of this now.
Thank God you are both alright!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
