sorry sent too early! Meant to say Im choosing to step out of this because what it all boils down to is that this is now their issues with the MLCer. I hate seeing my kids hurt! Nothing will make the mamma bear come out inside of me like my kids being hurt! I understand!
We can love them through this, support them, listen to them, and talk with them, but we can't change what these A$$holes's have done to them! And it's the most powerless feeling in the world!
You're so right Tad! In the long run, she's the one that's losing, not you!It's just not boldy showing up right now. It's just that the time frame in which this all unfolds is so damn slow! It's never in a time frame in which our ego's would love to see!
I know it seems like these MLCers will NEVER WAKE UP. And it's many years before they do! However when they do wake up and truly face the reality they created, I honestly feel sorry for them. Because all the misery in which everyone has suffered from this, will then hit them! The MLCer's that actually wake up and get it, will get the sucker punch of a lifetime.
And I guess for me personally, Im working on myself, my issues, and truly striving to grasp unconditional love. So when the time comes that they're knocked to the ground by the reality of their own doing, will I be woman enough to extend a loving hand out to help him back up?
I sure hope to be! I know its not going to happen today. Tomorrow isn't looking good either! But My goal is to get there.
