I know everyone is right. He really is not a good person. He is not what I thought I would choose for myself or to be the father of my children. But I am embarrassed that I am not even good enough in his eyes. I know there were things that I wasn't happy with during our marriage but it seems as though the only changes needed were with me.
He was not willing to go to ic/mc for me but he IS willing to do it now to get HER back. That right there is the most hurtful thing ever.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction