Yes. You have to ask yourself...if you "win" him back, what have you won? A serial cheater that you will continually be looking over your shoulder, waiting for the next bomb drop.
Get a clear image in your mind of what a truly remorseful husband would look like. Someone who would go to IC, marriage counseling, give you access to his phone and email etc. . Don't settle for less. And don't hold your breath.
