Wow, thanks everyone. I needed to hear this right now. I took my D14 to go see her friend in a play. This was the girl who played the Wicked Witch in the Wizard of Oz play that my D was in at the end of school this year. They are going to go out to dinner after and the mom that's taking them invited me to meet them and I'm going to do that. My oldest D19 is away at a music festival so I won't be able to do anything special for her B-day anyway. I will when she gets home as we have always gone, as a family, to the same restaurant but I guess this year her mom won't be there.
Something new has come up and I really need some input. My W just texted me that the last of her grandmother's stuff has to be moved and asked me if I would drive a u-haul truck from her GM's old place to her mom's. So, she is leaving and want's to be on her own but still wants me to do H stuff for her? I guess I can look at it as doing something for her mother and GM, not her. Anyone have any thoughts on whether I should drive a u-haul with my W and MIL as a favor for her tomorrow? My first thought was why not? But I am starting to think doing what I THINK is the right thing is probably the wrong thing! Thanks!
